So I have been working with Mercy Medical Angels, who provide flights for those with medical needs. It’s based on income, and they needed our tax return. I sent that and it said we had too much income, but of course we don’t anymore, so then I needed to send them the proof of Ben’s job loss, which I did. Now they want two months of bank statements. I can do that but I’m not 100 percent sure where they are, so I’ve got to go through some stuff. I did ask the credit union if they could email it to me, and it was going to cost six dollars, and so I decided I’d try to find it myself on principle. Although after I look for a while, my indignation on being charged may smooth out.

Another thing I’ve been doing is looking into ways Belinda can receive some sort of disability benefits. This is tricky because although I want her to have help with expenses, I also don’t know if she’s truly a good candidate. I want to find out if she would be eligible for Medicaid during college and after, even if she works. I’m not sure that’s how it works, but when we were having to pay out of pocket expenses while she was under Ben’s old insurance, we paid more than $5,000 in a year for her care. It was the same the year before that, when we started trying to figure everything out. Surely there is a way to receive help so she won’t be financially crippled by her rare condition for the rest of her life. I contacted a very nice lady at something called Sooner SUCCESS. From their website: Sooner SUCCESS collaborates closely with both public and private sectors with the goal to promote a comprehensive, coordinated system of health, social and educational services for Oklahoma children and youth with special healthcare needs in their local community. I asked her about TEFRA, and she has sent me some information, but I’m not sure it applies. Another quote, from a state website: TEFRA (Tax Equity and Fiscal Responsibility Act of 1982) gives states the option to make Medicaid (SoonerCare in Oklahoma) benefits available to children with physical or mental disabilities who would not ordinarily be eligible for Supplemental Security Income (SSI) benefits because of their parent’s income or resources. This option allows children who are eligible for institutional services to be cared for in their homes. So Belinda is on Medicaid now, because we are very low income at the moment. But when Ben gets a job, she won’t be eligible for Medicaid. I hoped TEFRA would be the answer, at least until she turns 20, but Belinda doesn’t really seem to be someone who be eligible for institutional services.

I’m guessing she’s going to end up falling through the cracks, and we’re going to dedicate a large amount of any future income to her health care after our income gets back to a non-poverty level. I’m still going to keep researching. At least after the show this weekend. We have another weekend of shows, but I think I will feel less obsessed with perfecting my lines at that point.

I have quite a few things I’m going to need to follow up on for Belinda. It’s been quite a busy couple of weeks, since the show I’m in, Once Upon A Mattress, opened last night. I did okay and only missed one sentence of my biggest monologue, and it didn’t really change anything. I’m going to go over my lines again in a bit, but first I want to make sure I don’t forget the things that are to come.

– Follow up with the HR rep to make sure there’s not another EOB I need to send;
– Find out if our credit score can be repaired once the bill issue is settled;
– Belinda’s dental cleaning on August 7;
– Start finding out what we need to do so I can continue accessing her medical records;
– Find out if Belinda’s bed can be delivered early and what that entails;
– See if Belinda can get chiropractic care for her headaches with the internist’s referral;
– Send two months of bank statements for Mercy Medical Angels for Belinda’s flight;
– Keep looking into what medical benefits Belinda may receive in the future.

And for fun, here’s some pictures of me with Belinda and Lenora after the show last night!