Busy, fun days

This week was Bennett’s birthday. I was worried I would not see Bennett on his birthday because he and Mia had plans with friends, but they made it happen. I was very glad! I will be sad some day when I don’t get to be with my babies on their birthday, and you know it will happen at some point.

The next day was Sarah’s art show at the school and she had some great pieces in the show. I posted them on facebook and they got a lot of compliments.

Then yesterday we went to Ben’s work’s Family Fun Day at Orr Farms. Belinda didn’t come home from college and Sarah didn’t want to go. Sad. But Ben and I went, and Lenora and Ben R, and Bennett and Mia, and Ben R’s family too, and that was fun. We took a ton of photos and we had lunch there and Ben won a soft sided cooler.

Orr Farms is set up mostly for small people, but even though we were big people we had a good time. I got a strawberry lemonade and I could taste it a little!

Still going

I continued to write every day in Alva and that felt great! I wrote at the public library, at the college library, in Belinda’s dorm room, and just sitting in the van.

I’m a little nervous about continuing when I get back home, where all the things that pull me away await.

A small update

It is surprising that it has been a month and a day since I wrote anything on here last. I have been very busy with medical and other things. Right now I am with Sarah at a dentist appointment, but I wanted to write something because I recently got the Finch app to try to be more productive, and I put “write something” on it and so I must write something. I did write a poem a few days ago, when I was in OKC for my yearly lady appointment.

Upon leaving an appt in the city

It’s fun to pretend to be a real person.
I think this thought as I travel the sidewalk
Like everyone else.
You are a real person, I remind myself.
But it’s okay; I know what I meant.

So anyway, I had the urge and so I wrote that. Because the thought was interesting to me.

I got a 2500 grant for ACT I this month and that’s the first one I’ve done. It felt really good to help in that way.

Cleaning

Ben is at work today and I cleaned house all morning. It seems that I don’t mind cleaning. What I do mind is people lounging around the house while I am cleaning.

Mom doesn’t count!

Now it’s time to get a lot of busywork done. I have a lot of newspaper and health things that I have been putting off and that’s what’s next. I want to read the next Dungeon Crawler Carl book (I’m on book 4, The Gate of the Feral Gods) but I shall not. At least I can do one responsible thing first!

Who Made You Laugh This Year

Again, I’m not sure how this pertains to “December Journaling if You Feel Like You Haven’t Achieved Much This Year.” Whatever. 21. Who made you laugh this year.

Ben, Mom, Lenora, Bennett, Belinda, Sarah, Ben R. Mia, Karlene, Krislyn, Kevin, Gary.

I also laughed at stuff Alx James did and the Holderness Family.

I don’t laugh super easy, and my big uncontrollable laugh is extremely rare and very coveted by my children. Bennett got me once this year and I can’t even remember what it was about but I remember how I kept hysterically laughing and I remember how proud he was.

I don’t even know what it is and I’m smiling again. Man, it was funny.

Last Day in DC

It’s eleven days after we left DC, but I still wanted to post that last day on here.

We woke up and packed up all our stuff. Then we went downtstairs and the front desk checked it so we didn’t have to haul it around all day. From there we ubered to the Rayburn building at the Capitol. We had an appointment to meet Tom Cole at 12:30. We got there early and that gave us more time to figure out where things were. We had a nice sit down meeting with him. We mostly talked about Belinda and about things in Oklahoma – just a social visit, really. It was nice meeting him. He seemed impressed with Belinda, and said if she was interested in being an intern in the future, she could apply with his staff.

He gave us each one of his coins, which is like coins people in the armed services carry. For some sort of bar thing. This was Belinda’s second coin like this; she has another from when she was very little and Jim Inhofe gave her one. She did not realize this because when she got old enough to try to play with it I hid it from her.

After that we walked around a bit. Belinda got a headache so we walked to a CVS. Then we got an uber again and went back to the hotel to get our stuff, then went to the airport. We volunteered to check our bags because the flight was so full, which we hadn’t done before. It was kind of a drag getting them afterward, but it was also nice not hauling them around right after the flight.

Belinda was on her laptop the whole time, writing. I don’t remember what I did. Mostly concentrated on keeping my elbow away from my neighbor’s elbow.

Lenora and Ben R. came and picked us up and the airport and that was very nice. They were hungry and so were we so we went to KFC, then home!

Belinda said the dilation didn’t help very much this time. Bummer.

The morning after

Belinda doesn’t feel well this morning. Her chest and her throat hurt. This didn’t happen after the last time, so I wonder if she might be coming down with something. She might have also slipped off her incline in the night, which would make stomach acid come into her throat. It’s difficult for her to sleep on an incline in a hotel. We tried to put pillows under the head of our mattress, but it’s a king size and it was too much for us, so we just put a lot of pillows under her head.

We were supposed to go meet Sen. Markwayne Mullin this morning but we canceled that and instead are just hanging around in the hotel. I’ve been working on the programs for the show at the theater this weekend. She just woke up (it’s almost 11) but hasn’t made any moves to get up yet.

Our dear kitty Nutmeg passed away in the night. Ben gave us the sad news this morning. Nutmeg was pretty old and had been having some health issues so at least she is at peace now. She was a wonderful kitty, and I would say the smartest cat I have ever known.

A peach and gray calico cat wearing a paper crown.

Nutmeg in her heyday.

Washington DC

Yesterday Belinda and I flew into Washington DC and today we went to Children’s National for her procedure. It was an endoscopy with possible dilation (they did that). We are here because she still goes to the pediatric surgeons that performed the POEM procedure for her achalasia.

So yesterday we got to the room and didn’t want to do anything. After a while we bundled up and walked to Domino’s and got pizza. Belinda did not wear gloves and her hands were so cold! I considered giving her mine and then I did not.

Beautiful view from our hotel room

This morning we called an uber and got to the hospital early. We went to see the chapel and the Healing Garden, which were underwhelming. But I’m glad I saw them because I had wanted to see them for a long time. There is allegedly something on the roof as well, but I wasn’t brave enough to try to find that.

We were in the waiting room for a really long time. I wrote a poem that didn’t rhyme, after an abandoned yellow crayon under a chair piqued my interest.

Waiting

Anyway, I made a bunch of notes of the day, mostly so I can keep the facts straight and remember which doctors and nurses worked on her (which came in very handy today with the phlebotomist).

Belinda told Dr. Kane that she had no symptoms and every thing was good and I told her to really tell him, and then she talked about how things were getting stuck sometimes and how she was having spasms. He told her that stress can make achalasia worse. So when she was unable to swallow in the cafeteria at school, that made her have to regurgitate, which made her even more anxious the next time. I am very thankful the school released her from the meal plan. I cook and freeze meals for her, and she makes herself an egg for breakfast every day.

Anyway. The nurse came and talked and talked. She was very nice but it was a long chat! We were both getting tired. Then the anesthesiologist came in, and he checked out Belinda’s veins and then she said not my hands, please, and he said what about your foot and she said sure and I DIED but he got it onthe first try and Belinda wasn’t even bothered. I felt nauseated but made it.

Shot in the foot time

Dr. Petrosyan came by to say hi. He and Dr. Kane are both her surgeons, and they performed the POEM together. Her last scope and dilation was also with them. Today Dr. Petrosyan was the surgeon who was doing all the emergency surgeries. We talked about languages a little with him. He knows Armenian, Russian, and English. He’s very smart!

So it took a bit longer because the consent form didn’t include the dilation, and so the nurse couldn’t let her go to the OR until that was fixed. So Dr. Kane fixed it, Belinda signed it. She was glad to get to sign it twice because she got her digital signature to look better the second time.

Dr. Kane said everything looked great and the dilation they did was very small, but they of course did it while they were in there. It looks like it went from 9.4 mm at the narrowest point to 12.0 mm. So that will be nice for her.

We got an uber back to the room and I had thought we might go to the Botanical Gardens this evening but she just wanted to order food and rest. So we got fettuccine and had it delivered. I’ve never done that before and the cost was horrible. Too cold to walk tonight though, and getting an uber would have been more expensive.

Tomorrow we are supposed to meet a senator in the morning. Then the art museum or library of congress or natural history. I’m letting her lead.

A moment you felt proud this year and why

Here we are again, for another day of “December Journaling If You Feel Like You Haven’t Achieved Much This Year.”

A moment you felt proud this year and why.

I can tell you that when I first read this, I thought of something for one of the kids. And then I thought of something for another one. And then I realized I could never write down just one thing that I was proud of the children this year. So I had to do something else.

I guess the thing that was the hardest to accomplish this year has been the huge Sarah birth certificate fiasco. I was very proud to hold that birth certificate in my hand, and very proud to hold Sarah’s driver’ permit in my hand as well!

I don’t know what else. This has been such a year of ups and downs! Anyway…pride goeth before a fall so maybe I should just cool it.

Three things you wouldn’t change about the year, no matter what

It’s the 10th and I’m backdating again. I remembered when I was in bed last night and I definitely decided to stay right where I was!

So here we go with the Dec. 9 edition of “December Journaling If You Feel Like You Haven’t Achieved Much This Year.”

Three things you wouldn’t change about the year, no matter what.

I firmly believe that things happen for a reason. I think that all things work together for the good of those who love God. I love God so it’s all for my good. Now, my good might not be what I want at the time, but again and again it has proved to have been good for me later. We will not understand everything this side of eternity, but someday. I know that God knows what’s best and I trust Him completely.

So, with that in mind, I can’t really pick three things I wouldn’t change about the year. But I can put three things that I definitely am glad about – I’m thankful for all the time I got to spend with my family this year. I’m thankful for how God has taken care of us again and again during this time of trial. I’m thankful for my home and my bed and my table and the people I get to share life with!